In 2021, I struggled to learn to drive with Non Verbal Learning Disability (NVLD). Despite passing the written test, my brain struggled to translate written concepts into physical actions while driving. Coordinating the pedals, steering, mirrors, and spatial awareness felt overwhelming. Read More
Growing up with undiagnosed NVLD and ADHD was deeply challenging. While a few teachers were supportive, most students did not recognize my struggles, and I often felt ostracized within school social structures—from elementary school through high school. Because my learning disabilities were not diagnosed until my sophomore year, many teachers approached me with preconceived notions, labeling my difficulties with listening, following directions, interpreting nonverbal cues, and fine motor tasks as me being “difficult” or a “challenge,” rather than recognizing that I needed additional support. Read More
After years of struggling in life, struggles finding work that I could do (adequately), struggles in housing and homelessness, not being able to learn how to drive-despite much effort and hard work I knew enough was enough. That my inability to do these things-which are pretty much required to live a decent life, have a career and be self-sufficient- was not my fault and I wasn’t lazy or unmotivated but must have an undiagnosed disability. Read More
Growing up with only one sibling who excelled in everything was both difficult and highly rewarding. So in this piece, I will share the positives and negatives. As deep down I know, in the end, it gave me a much brighter future.
For example, right away, I decided to stay in sports despite having gross motor skills deficits. This was a surprise to many as most thought based on my deficits I needed to do the manager route. However, by attending my sister’s athletic events, I understood if I wasn’t in sports I would miss out on so much. This led me to challenge myself, and at times I did think the doubters were right. Fortunately I learned rather quickly that by being in athletics, you can meet great friends and mentors. What was special about this was that both me and my sister I received multiple awards during our athletic careers and without wanting to keep with her I wouldn’t have had these very positive experiences. Read More
