In 2021, I struggled to learn to drive with Non Verbal Learning Disability (NVLD). Despite passing the written test, my brain struggled to translate written concepts into physical actions while driving. Coordinating the pedals, steering, mirrors, and spatial awareness felt overwhelming.
My supportive mother hired a driving instructor, but she didn’t fully consider how NVLD and anxiety make driving confusing for me. Each lesson left me exhausted and questioning why something seemed simple for others.
Now 25, my mom encourages me to try again. We partnered with a driving school specializing in learners with disabilities, but I’m uncertain if that’s what I want. The pressure to drive persists, but I question whether I want independence on four wheels or find other ways to be independent.
Living with NVLD means balancing expectations and reality. Driving may still be in my future, but I want to choose it for myself, not because I feel pressured. I remind myself that moving at my own pace is okay, and my worth isn’t defined by my learning or driving ability.
Nina
I’ve lived with NVLD since I was 11. I attended a special education school where I diligently worked on skills such as reading and basic math, ultimately graduating with honors and perfect attendance. As an adult, I find navigating the world challenging, especially since my disability is not widely recognized. Despite these difficulties, I strive to do my best every day.
