Living with High-Functioning NVLD While Struggling with Executive Functioning, by Brian

By March 21, 2025 March 25th, 2025 NVLD Bloggers

Nonverbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) is often misunderstood because it doesn’t fit neatly into common learning disability categories. As someone with high-functioning NVLD, I have strong verbal skills, an excellent memory for facts, and the ability to articulate complex ideas. On the surface, I may seem highly capable. However, beneath this competence, I face persistent struggles with executive functioning—planning, organization, time management, and task completion. These difficulties affect nearly every aspect of my life, from academics and work to daily responsibilities and self-care.

One of the most frustrating aspects of NVLD is the contradiction between my strengths and my challenges. Because I can express myself well and understand concepts at a deep level, people assume I should have no trouble managing my responsibilities. What they don’t see is how much effort it takes to stay organized, complete tasks efficiently, and maintain focus.

For example, I can write a well-structured essay but might struggle to start it because I feel overwhelmed by where to begin. I might understand a work assignment but misjudge how long it will take to complete, leading to procrastination and last-minute stress. These struggles aren’t due to a lack of intelligence or motivation; they stem from my brain’s difficulty in managing the “how” rather than the “what.”

Brian