Before I Catastrophize, I Pause and Reflect, by Brian

Living with NVLD and ADHD can feel overwhelming—especially when executive functioning makes time management, organization, and flexibility so hard. But before I let myself spiral into frustration or fear, I remind myself of something important: the information I’ve learned about NVLD and ADHD is a tool, not a sentence.

Understanding how my brain works gives me clarity and direction. It helps me create strategies that fit me—not what others expect. I’ve started to use this knowledge to advocate for myself in school, in work, and in daily life. I’m learning to build routines that support my needs and set goals I can actually reach.
I remind myself that awareness is progress. I’m not failing—I’m adapting. I don’t have to catastrophize every challenge when I’m actively doing the work to understand myself and grow. My path might be different, but it’s still valid—and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.
I’m learning to offer myself compassion, not criticism. And I choose to keep moving forward—one informed, empowered step at a time.

Brian